Never make someone a priority, when you are just an option.

After I wrote my piece this morning on emotional abuse, I got thinking about my relationship with James. It was an on and off relationship that went on for many years. Too many years. 19 years to be exact. Now first off – we didn’t date all that time. We met when I was 20…

Advice from my grandmother 3: marriage

Advice from her school teacher Mr. Sandbaek, early 1920’s, Denmark. Most happy is the one in a happy marriage. Second most happy is the single person, who lives for a cause. The less happy is the one once married, but lost the loved one. But least happy, is the one in a bad marriage. Another…