Crying is a natural human response – emotional abuse

I just read another AITA (Am I the Asshole) thread and left a few comments the discussion. Some of these discussions get me riled up as they spark memories of my own childhood or trauma in my younger years. I came back from the gym at 9pm and my girlfriend was waiting for me at…

Grief: if ye love me

In my line of volunteer work with the church, I’ve play music for a lot of funerals. And because I’ve been at the church as long as I have, I’ve come to know many of the church members and they have become an extended family. I’ve never been a highly religious person. I’m obsessed with…

Advice from my grandmother 3: marriage

Advice from her school teacher Mr. Sandbaek, early 1920’s, Denmark. Most happy is the one in a happy marriage. Second most happy is the single person, who lives for a cause. The less happy is the one once married, but lost the loved one. But least happy, is the one in a bad marriage. Another…