Why I am single (and it’s not what you think)

So, in the last few days, I’ve been accused of being a manhater and painting men in a negative light in this blog. I kind of laughed at the thought because I’m usually really careful not to blame any specific gender when it comes to pointing out toxic behaviors and actions. If anything, I’ve learned…

Ask Reddit – how did your relationship end?

It’s been a gorgeous spring day here in the south end of the city. I missed most of this due to exhaustion. I think my body is still getting used to the new condo. But the sun is shining. I’ve got the windows open and blinds open to brighten up the place. It’s still a…

Troubled in troubling times

It’s Thursday at midnight and I’m still wide awake. It’s been a long kind of day and maybe for the first time in a long while, lonely. The isolation of well, isolation life has me contemplating all my major life decisions. Like being single. Can you believe, that this week marks the 3rd anniversary of…

Ask a Reddit Question: How did you lose your best friend?

This was an interesting discussion I stumbled upon while reading Reddit from my bed today. The migraines and dizzy spells have really created havoc on my sleep schedule. I wound up staying up all last night and passed out around 10 am this morning. I’m not sure if it’s my new bed that’s uncomfortable, or…

How to meet cute boys – dating in the 90’s

I’m writing this at 10:30 pm but you’ll see the post in the morning. I need to get back to scheduling daily posts. I also really need to try and get some regular sleep going on here. But a question on Twitter reminded me of a story that I haven’t shared here yet. It reminded…

On sabbatical from love

Since no one stepped in and told me to stop- I am still chatting with an ex. I could blame the booze. But I only had one glass of wine last night. So, it’s not that. Maybe it’s COVID and isolation. Being cut off from my usual group of friends and acquaintances. You all know…